5 Things To Consider Before Becoming A Parent

Times have changed, and as women become more independent, they delay childbearing. They choose to build their careers first and then they make the conscious decision to have a baby.

Are you thinking about having a baby? Having a child is a huge responsibility and you literally have to dedicate your life to another human being. When you have decided that you are indeed ready to have a child, it is important to consider things like finances, emotional support, and day care. You have to be ready before you take on the role of a parent. You have to know what it is like to have a baby.

Let’s discuss some things to consider before becoming a parent.

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Things to consider before becoming a parent

Are you ready?

Both partners should be ready to be parents. If you are being pressured then you are not ready. It has to be an inherent desire to have a baby and both partners should feel the same way about growing their family.  Are you willing to lose sleep? Babies need a lot of attention, especially in their newborn and infant years. You will have to wake up in the middle of the night to feed your baby and change diapers. The life of a mom is not easy. You have to be physically and mentally prepared to take on this role.


You will have little free time

Being a parent is a responsibility that you cannot run away from. You will have to be present to care for and protect your child. You are a mom, but your other responsibilities don’t just magically disappear, some women still have to be a wife, and some still have to work to provide for the child.

If you can leave your child in the care of someone you trust, such as a grandmother or aunt, then that would give you a little time to yourself. You will have to cherish the free time when you get it because they don’t come often. You basically give up your freedom when you become a parent.


Can you give your baby the best life right now?

All parents imagine giving their kids a better life, better than the ones they lived. If you had a rough upbringing, you would not want your child to experience the same things you did as a parent.

Think about how financially stable you are? Both parents need to meet and review their budget to see if they can comfortably care for a child.  You should be able to give your child the best possible life. You don’t have to be rich but your child should have access to basic needs.



Parenting style

Think about the parenting style you want to use. You can learn from your parents. Every mother and father wants to be the perfect parent but you will make mistakes as you take on this new role. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Observe the parenting style of your parents and those around you to see what you prefer. Were they too strict? Did they spend enough time with you? How did you feel? You and your partner should be on the same page when it comes to how you want to raise your child.


Is your relationship stable?

Women tend to think that having a baby will fix relationship problems. Sometimes the problems get worse when a baby comes into the picture. Make sure that the relationship is healthy before you decide to have a baby. The baby needs to grow up in a healthy home where both parents will give their support.


Wrapping up

Being a parent is a beautiful experience. Do not rush the process, wait until you are fully prepared.






Felecia Smith

Felecia is a professional writer at Lifehabi. She possesses a B.A. in Linguistics with honors. She likes to travel, read, and explore new cultures during her leisure time. Honors in Linguistics and a minor in Sign Language and Interpreting. Participated in a Cross Campus Exchange for one semester at the University of the West Indies, St Augustine.

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